[Proverbs Chapter 5 Daily Devotional and Wisdom Guide] Welcome to Dandelion Bible. Proverbs Chapter 5 contains a serious warning about maintaining purity and faithfulness in marriage. With the loving concern of a father, Solomon urges the young man to listen carefully to wisdom, remain far from the flattering temptation of the strange woman, and find joy in the wife of his youth. Using the vivid picture of drinking water from one’s own cistern, this chapter presents God’s beautiful design for faithfulness, love, and satisfaction within marriage. On this page, you will find the complete text of Proverbs 5, a daily devotional reflection, a prayer response, and high-quality Scripture reading with gentle singing. May God help you guard your heart and mind in a distracting world and experience the true freedom of walking in His light.
Proverbs Chapter 5 is a profound and serious teaching on wisdom. Its central message is clear:
Stay far away from sexual immorality and temptation.
Through vivid and realistic images, the writer warns us that:
The strange woman—or any form of sexual temptation—is a sweet but dangerous trap.
Sinful temptation may appear attractive, but it ultimately brings bitterness.
Once a person becomes entangled, their life, dignity, family, finances, and future may suffer devastating consequences.
This chapter is not only for men. Its warning applies to every believer.
The “strange woman” represents every temptation that draws a person away from the right path, damages marriage, and consumes the soul.
The central message of Proverbs 5 is unmistakable:
Wisdom protects us from falling into pain that may have lasting consequences.
Fearing God, remaining faithful to the marriage covenant, and staying far from temptation are the paths of blessing.
The Book of Proverbs frequently takes the form of a wise father instructing his son. Proverbs 5 continues the pattern found throughout Proverbs 1–9, emphasizing the importance of wisdom through a father’s loving instruction.
In ancient Israel, marriage was more than an emotional relationship. It was foundational to the stability of the family, the community, and future generations. Sexual immorality therefore harmed not only the individual but also the family, the wider community, and one’s spiritual life.
This chapter is written with several distinctive features:
It uses powerful contrasts: sweetness followed by bitterness.
It uses vivid images: lips that drip honey, but feet that descend toward death.
It speaks with the voice of a father: urgent, serious, and deeply compassionate.
It warns that the consequences of sin spread outward to affect other people, families, and society.
This is not simply a moralistic lecture. It is life-saving instruction intended to keep the reader from a destructive path.
Verses 1–6
The father begins by urging his son:
“Attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.”
He then describes the way temptation presents itself:
“The lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb.”
“Her mouth is smoother than oil.”
Temptation often appears sweet, attractive, and harmless at first.
Yet its final outcome is:
Bitter as wormwood
Sharp as a two-edged sword
A path descending toward death
Steps leading toward hell
Temptation never reveals the full cost at the beginning. It displays only what appears pleasant and desirable.
The spiritual lesson is clear:
God calls us to stay away from sin not because He wants to restrict our lives, but because He wants to protect them.
Verses 7–14
The father continues with a direct command:
“Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house.”
He does not say that it is safe to come close.
He says:
Do not go near.
Sin often works through a gradual process:
Approaching → Curiosity → Remaining → Falling → Regret → Pain
This passage also describes the possible consequences of temptation:
Losing one’s honor
Giving one’s years to cruel people
Allowing strangers to consume one’s strength
Losing the fruit of one’s labor
Experiencing regret later in life
Physical decline
Loss of dignity
Damage to one’s reputation
This is a realistic picture of consequences that many people have experienced.
Verses 15–20
In contrast to the earlier warning, this section presents God’s beautiful design for marriage.
The writer uses poetic imagery:
“Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.”
This symbolizes faithfulness, satisfaction, exclusivity, and tenderness within marriage.
The passage continues:
“Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.”
This is more than a moral command. It reveals God’s desire for intimacy, delight, affection, and satisfaction between husband and wife.
Wisdom teaches us:
True satisfaction is found within the marriage God has given, not in forbidden desire.
Verses 21–23
The chapter ends with a solemn reminder:
“For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord.”
God sees every step, every decision, and every compromise.
The bondage created by immorality is not limited to outward consequences. It also becomes a chain around the heart:
“His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.”
Sin gradually takes away freedom.
The conclusion of Proverbs 5 calls us to:
Fear God
Stay far from sin
Remain faithful
Live in purity
This is the pathway to freedom and joy.
Do not judge temptation by its outward appearance.
Ask yourself:
Is this pleasing to God? Will it bring life, or will it lead to bondage?
God’s wisdom does not tell us to see how close we can come to temptation without falling.
It tells us to remain far from it.
Proverbs 5 calls husbands and wives to remain faithful, treasure one another, and walk together throughout life.
True romance is found within God’s design, not in the temptations offered by the world.
There are no hidden corners of life that God cannot see.
He sees us completely, yet He also desires to help us return to the right path.
Proverbs Chapter 5 is not intended to restrict human freedom. It is intended to protect human life.
It teaches us:
Staying away from temptation, remaining faithful to the marriage covenant, and fearing God form the wise pathway toward a blessed life.
May every reader receive strength through God’s Word, refuse the bondage of temptation, and discover true freedom, security, and joy in the fear of the Lord.
5:1 My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding:
5:2 That thou mayest regard discretion, and that thy lips may keep knowledge.
5:3 For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:
5:4 But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.
5:5 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.
5:6 Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.
5:7 Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.
5:8 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:
5:9 Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:
5:10 Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;
5:11 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,
5:12 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;
5:13 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!
5:14 I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.
5:15 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
5:16 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
5:17 Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee.
5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
5:19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
5:20 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
5:21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings.
5:22 His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.
5:23 He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.
Let us pray together each day in response to God’s Word, remembering both our own spiritual needs and the needs of those around us.
Loving Heavenly Father, thank You for giving us Proverbs Chapter 5 and teaching us through Your wisdom how to remain pure, upright, and reverent in the realities of daily life. Your Word shines like a light, revealing dangers that may otherwise remain hidden and showing us the path we should follow.
In Proverbs Chapter 5, You clearly warn us about the temptation of sexual immorality. Although the lips of the strange woman drip honey and her mouth is smoother than oil, her end is bitter as wormwood and sharp as a two-edged sword. Lord, You show us that temptation often begins with sweetness but ends in bitterness. What appears gentle and attractive may destroy a family, damage a life, and alter the future. Give us discerning hearts so that we may recognize temptation before it takes hold. When danger appears, help us turn away quickly rather than allowing ourselves to move gradually toward a trap.
You also tell us to remain far from temptation and not even approach its door. Lord, this warning concerns more than sexual desire. It reminds us to stay away from everything that draws us from truth, weakens our faith, or damages our character—whether unhealthy relationships, corrupt thoughts, harmful online content, entertainment, or dangerous environments. Teach us to establish wise boundaries. Keep our hearts from being drawn toward temptation and our feet from walking into places of danger.
You further instruct us to treasure the marriage, family, and love You have given and to let our own fountain be blessed rather than giving our honor and strength to strangers. Lord, protect our families. Help husbands and wives remain faithful, respect one another, and offer mutual support. Give young people wisdom as they prepare for the future. Do not allow momentary passion or fantasy to take away the direction of their lives. May those we love walk in purity, integrity, and reverence before You.
Heavenly Father, may Your wisdom also guide us as we pray for the people around us. Protect brothers and sisters who are facing temptation or weakness, and keep them from hidden traps. Strengthen those whose marriages have been wounded or whose relationships are under strain. Bring healing, reconciliation, and restoration. Guide young people to understand self-control, respect, patience, and the wisdom of waiting. Protect them from the confusion of the world’s values. May those around us walk in the light and not lose the blessings of life to darkness.
Lord, we also place the world into Your hands. Many societies are experiencing broken families, confused values, and widespread temptation, leaving countless people wounded, lost, and deeply hurt. Have mercy upon this generation. Let truth be seen, awaken human hearts, restore families, and allow the next generation to grow in purity. Restrain cultural influences that celebrate evil, and lead more people back to the beautiful order You established.
Lord, let the wisdom of Proverbs Chapter 5 take deep root in our hearts. Help us not to rely upon our own understanding, but to acknowledge You in all our ways. May we choose to stay far from temptation, guard our hearts carefully, and walk in the way that is pleasing to You.
In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ we pray. Amen.